A Grade-by-Grade Guide for Parents of Aspiring Student-Athletes

If you’re a parent of a student-athlete dreaming of playing sports in college, you’re probably wondering: When should my child start the recruiting process? The answer: earlier than you might think. With college recruiting more competitive than ever, thanks to roster caps, transfer rules, and increased visibility via social media, knowing the right steps to take at each grade level is essential. Here’s your grade-by-grade guide to maximizing your child’s recruiting potential.

6th–8th Grade: Laying the Foundation

• Focus on Fundamentals: At this stage, the priority is developing athletic skills, a positive attitude, and a love for the game. Coaches look for multi-sport athletes who build coordination and avoid burnout.

• Academic Habits: Encourage strong study habits. Grades matter for future NCAA eligibility.

• Early Exposure: Attend local camps and clinics for skill-building, not exposure. Consider creating a basic recruiting-friendly social media presence, with parental supervision.

9th Grade: Making an Impression

• Start a Sports Resume: Track your athlete’s stats, awards, and academic honors.

• Academic Eligibility: Meet with the school counselor to ensure NCAA-approved core courses are on the schedule.

• Varsity Opportunities: Strive for varsity team experience and leadership roles.

• Get Film: Start collecting high-quality video from games for future highlight reels.

• Begin Research: Make a list of colleges and athletic programs that fit your child’s interests and skill level.

10th Grade: Gaining Visibility

• Build a Recruiting Profile: Create an online profile on reputable recruiting platforms.

• Highlight Reel: Begin compiling highlight videos showcasing your athlete’s best plays and skills.

• Email Introductions: Start emailing college coaches with an introduction, resume, and highlight video.

• Attend Showcases: Choose camps and tournaments where college coaches are present. Focus on quality over quantity.

• Grades Matter: Keep GPA strong. NCAA eligibility standards are getting tougher.

11th Grade: Stepping Up Outreach

• Regular Coach Communication: Update coaches on stats, schedules, and academic progress.

• Unofficial Visits: Visit campuses and attend prospect days or college camps.

• Refine List: Narrow down your list of target schools and deepen conversations with programs that express interest.

• Register with NCAA Eligibility Center: Officially register to be recruited.

• Stay on Track: Continue to update highlight videos and share with coaches.

12th Grade: Closing the Deal

• Respond Quickly: Answer all coach communications promptly. This is the year offers are extended.

• Official Visits & Applications: Schedule official visits and complete college applications early.

• Negotiate & Decide: Discuss offers and financial aid with coaches. Compare opportunities. Don’t be afraid to ask questions.

• Finalize NCAA Requirements: Submit transcripts and standardized test scores to the NCAA Eligibility Center.

Key Tips for Parents:

• Start Early: Waiting until junior or senior year is too late for most sports.

• Stay Organized: Keep a calendar of key recruiting dates, deadlines, and contacts.

• Be Realistic: Target schools where your child can succeed academically and athletically.

• Be Supportive, Not Overbearing: Let your child take the lead. Be there for guidance and encouragement.

• Utilize Proven Resources: Tools like the Recruited To Play™ course give families a step-by-step recruiting roadmap to stay ahead.